A few weeks ago, I submitted a blog entry in which I stated that my subby was a ‘skirt chaser’. A friend of mine read the offering and suggested I might want to consider a clarification. The phrase was not intended to be confessional rather it was intended to illustrate the nature of how our sub and conscious mind interact.
The Elephant (subby) is able to be controlled by the ant (conscious) by a concerted effort. You might say that the subby will always default to the skirt chaser with out a conscious effort. The beauty of it is that we are able to seize control of our lives by controlling what dwells in our sub conscious mind. I need to embrace and have a plan to acknowledge what is being offered and to respond immediately. Consistent positive feeding of our minds is the answer to our juvenile subby’s attempts to ignore long term consequences.